Sunday, October 24, 2010

He's back!

Aidan arrived back this afternoon safely. I invited his first mom to bring him here to the house, it was her first time in our home. Usually we meet in the parking lot of a local fast food place. Not just because I wanted to have a little anonymity, but mostly because it was right off of the highway and our home is about 15 minutes farther.

Anyhow, I figured it is time for her to come over here, I am not afraid she will act up as I was in the beginning. And I really feel she needs to know we trust her as I believe she trusts us.I also need her to feel comfortable, so when Aidan goes home to her for good, she will feel like she can call me or bring him here if she is in crisis or just needs time for herself.

So I did pretty well last night, only checked up on Aidan once, remembered he wasn't there and went back to what I was doing, no tears, so that is good. I still got up around 6:30am and had a little extra time to get ready for church.

Speaking of church, I am really trying to like our church since it took on it's new format. We were the Berean Christian Church and now we are part of a big mega church called Harvest Bible Chapel. I really like the Pastor and the 4 Pillars and the music. But some of it is taking me a long time to get used to. Before, we would go into the sanctuary together, sit as a family for the worship time, then announcements, and then they would call childrens church and the little ones would leave for the last part. Now we "check them in" to their various Sunday School rooms. I have to dash around to 5 different rooms including the nursery to drop off everyone, including Katy. Then I go into the sanctuary alone for the entire service. They do bring Katy and Mackenzie's classes into the sanctuary, but the kids all sit separate from their parents.

After the service I have to rush again to round them all up so the teachers don't have to wait with them too long. I am exhausted by the end of this, and I truly miss being with my children during church. I want to worship together! Does this sound unreasonable? Because of this, I am not sure where this is going to. I did a lot of church "hopping" during the summer and we just never found anything we really liked. Today Katy and Mackenzie sat with me for the worship and then Mackenzie followed her class back when they all left. Katy stayed with me and followed along really well for the service. She took great notes and we were able to discuss it later at lunch. In fact, she even got out her notes and went over some of the scriptures with her sisters. Maybe we'll try that again and see if that feels comfortable for all of us. Madyson Claire is happy to go to her class. They give out candy at the end...she'll do most anything for candy I am sorry to say.

We had lunch at Costco, Hot Dogs of course! We needed pull-ups for Ava Marie and a couple of other things. We had to walk around and have some of the taste tests and one of them was their Rotisserie Chicken Pot Pie. A really huge deep dish, savory chicken pie that you take home to cook. It tasted wonderful so I bought one to make for dinner tonight. It was definitely a hit! Very tasty and moist. Everyone had seconds and Randy ate with us also. And I still have half a pie for leftovers!


Kathy - mom of many said...

Hi Maureen, thanks for stopping by my blog again and commenting. About your church...keep praying for God to show you if you should leave and ask Him exactly WHERE to go. We did that and were led right to the place we should be. Also, you are doing a great thing by having your children take notes in church to discuss later. There is a book called, "Parenting in the Pew" and that suggestion is in there. I was reading in Joshua this weekend and found a verse that said all the people were together (women and children included) when the law was being read. That got me to thinking it was sort of like a family integrated church and it made me smile. Families should definitely not be made to split up for the majority of church. There are way too many other areas of society where children are apart from their families.

maureen said...

Thanks for the thoughts on our church Kathy. I too feel like society tries to split our children away from us so often. I know in the public school where 2 of my daughters are they will not let them play together. They are in 1st and 2nd grade, and are on the playground at the same time! But the teachers always say to them they should spend more time with their friends. These two are particularly close and they always want to stay together. I want to encourage my children to be close to me and to each other.

Anyhow, I will look up the scripture you are referring to in Joshua and pray about it some more. I know God is leading us and I trust Him.